I don't see how nesting could possibly work in our situation based on how W is when it comes to housework and finances, we can't afford a second place, and I don't really think there is a place either of us can go to stay while the other person is in the house. But it seems she doesn't want to hear any of this or actually do some research on any of the above situations. Everything currently is just made off of knee jerk reactions without looking at the big picture or the inner workings of any of the options in front of us. Currently we have been living in the same house, in separate bed rooms raising the kids and things were going well so I'm not sure why the sudden urgency to start proceeding in the first place.
