I know it is hard to think about but look at what you can afford alone if that will be the end game and whether you can afford to stay where you are if she left. Rule of thumb here always seems to be......You want your space, go get your space, don't expect me to contribute and don't make it more difficult for the kids.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019