A familiar story with questions VII

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Actually, the emotional detachment of this might work with W, if all I wanted was to get some.

I am looking for movement in the MR.

I confess that I am struggling with expectations.

And I just want to reiterate to you and everyone, that there is no such thing as emotionally detached sex with a WAS. And I firmly believe that the people who think and say they can have unemotional sex with the WAS are lying to themselves and the board.

I'm not sure it's impossible. The first time I did with my WAS I was pretty detached. My reading and study had prepared me well to attach no expectations or significance to it. She asked that I role play that we were strangers and I got into that. Funny thing was after that request she wasnt that into it the role playing.

I agree it is very difficult to do, and very dangerous since most cannot. But I don't think it is impossible.

Not imposable to me either. W and I had sex for 6 months after BD and into DB. It has been nearly 5 months since I stopped initiating and at this point, I'm sure there will be emotional attachment. But I am in what I believe is moving toward piecing. If W has attachment, good. I have come too far to abandon my plan.

Detachment is the key.