People, especially women, love to feel like they are being heard. Listening is so underrated. Be sure to ask her questions and go deeper into what she's telling you from time to time.
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lol, yes it is important to listen. Listening and validating is DB 101.
My point was more about W's awareness. Where she used to yammer on and although I was listening, she seemed to care less. Now she seems more aware of my attention.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.