Some of them will start the process for a divorce and then drop it and others will push it through in a hurry. Unfortunately, if you pick up the reins and push, it will be on you to complete the process. Is there any reason that you want to push it through? Black, you won't get closure with a divorce. Yes, you will end your marriage, but when crisis people do such things to the LBS, closure is not the same "closure" you get when someone passes away. Why? Because you will not get clear answers to the why they walked away.
If you can hold out a while longer, I would do so...unless it is because of a financial reason or you've moved on totally and do not want to contemplate a possible reconciliation down the road. There is no guarantee that she'll wake up, but there are also no guarantees in life...it's your call as to whether to push it through or not. If you aren't sure, then sit quietly for a bit and the answers will reveal themselves. As the old saying goes, if you aren't sure, then don't.
Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
