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[Jim1234]

In some states, moving out constitutes "abandonment", which has significant repercussions in divorce. So you should move back in. I don't know how that goes in the UK, but I think the advice to consult a lawyer, especially in light of her threat to call the police, is pretty good.

Maybe you could respond to one of her texts by saying "This is my home, too. If you can't live with me, maybe you should consider moving out. I don't want this divorce, but I can't stop you. But your decision to divorce has consequences, and moving out may be one of them."

You've received a lot of good advice so far. Remember, "believe none of what you hear, and only half of what you see."

Have you seen your children since you've moved out? You need to.