Toe, practice makes perfect. Just do your best. What helped me the most is in times of frustration is to step back and take a breath. Think things thru rationally and then proceed with caution. It is not easy- for I feel our kids are in a fragile state that you really gotta stay connected and in tune with them. All the best!!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18