Originally Posted by pain18
I was originally going to the city to attend a class on sex. But I think the lack of physical intimacy and my emotional state is causing me to reconsider.
Good idea for the future, but yes timing is wrong.

Good book:
https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538260


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So I know that after work I am going to lift tonight and pray.
After that, give yourself permission to take a break. any R thoughts start to take over , tell yourself "I will deal with that tomorrow".

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After that... I may just go to the city tonight and find something at this point.
Sounds like a great idea. During my sitch, I would go get dinner alone. Enjoy taking to the staff. I would go to live music alone. Enjoy interacting with people.




"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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