DH - Your dating coach would say that when she reaches out to make a date and if she gives you some lame excuse or says she is busy then just tell her once she figures out her schedule to give you a call. Then go dark and never look back. If/when she contacts you again ask her out again and if she makes the same lame excuse then tell her the same thing then never bring up getting together ever again. If she continues to contact you make some small talk maybe a couple of messages back and forth then tell her you have to run.
If you don't like that then never contact her again and if she reaches out to you don't respond (you can ghost her).
Or you can just call her on the phone and ask her all of these questions. I personally like the coaches recommendation as you never want to burn a bridge or back baby in a corner
