Thanks ovrrnbw and burned. I worry a lot about how he might react to what I say or what I do. I even did that during our marriage. I walked on eggshells fearing he’d get upset or annoyed and look where that got me. I used to be so confident and he had a huge crush on me for years but I wasn’t interested. I feel like during our marriage he became neglectful and almost emotionally abusive that it whittled away at my confidence and strength. I’m not going to let that happen anymore.