He texted me to have a quiet evening and some "alone time" assuming that I would be happy they weren't home.
H sent me a similar text 7 days after his mum took the kids away on holiday.
"Hope you're enjoying the peace and quiet. Do you know where X is?".
Bearing in mind this was the first time the kids had been away without me, I'd not heard from him since be had taken the kids to the airport a week before, and that 3 days before the text was our wedding anniversary, all i could think was the [censored] gall of this man. Insensitivity doesnt even half describe the way they behave sometimes.
i ignored the first part of his text and only responded to the question.
PS - you are not his mum. Dont feel guilty. It is no longer your job to be his cheerleader. If he brings up how anxious he is about work, interviews etc. the vets would say (I think) it is ok to validate but dont text, call, wish him luck, whatever. Remember, he abandoned you, not the other way around.
