I think the more i tried to tell my S how much his mom loved him when he talked about being hurt in all that shes done, that i think it caused him to feel like i supported her and not him.
thanks for this insight e. D is 14y/o. she already has concluded that WW is never turning around. i can keep on saying that WW loves her, but again, actions speaks louder than words, this is where WW is falling behind. hence, D14 thinks that i only day those things about WW is because it’s the generic reply.
the way i feel it, and i might just be mind reading, WW is just waiting for D14’s hate and anger to die down, then she’ll swoop back in there and start cake eating. have a POS and have her D14. but good luck with that, when D14 builds a wall against you, not even gorbachev can tear it down. D14 already has NC my in laws, because they told her not to get mad at WW and not disrespect her, guess where those comments led them? just sad, that D14 doesn’t have anybody to talk to, except her close friends, IC, and me.
haven’t told my side of the family yet. and i don’t intend to. my brothers treated WW like a real sister. they hangout and drink and they even take WW to nudie bars. and i don’t want to destroy that dynamic for now. i know my brothers would really be devastated.
D14 has seen, heard, read things about WW’s waywardness so you’re right, it is WW’s cross to bear in her lifetime.
