My Story

[Ready2Change]

I therefore have decided to move back into the house tomorrow. She is so annoyed and said she doesn't want me there.

Good decision.

W"Bla bla bla bla bla don't want you in the house..bla bla bla"
W"Bla bla bla bla bla ..bla bla bla"
W"Bla bla bla bla bla ..bla bla bla"
W"Bla bla bla bla bla ..bla bla bla"
W"Bla bla bla bla bla ..bla bla bla"

Keep listening. maintain eye contact. Wait till she is done. Wait for a long pause, then calmly:
H "I am sorry you feel that way. I am sorry for hurting you in the past. "

let her interrupt and then listen....any long pauses, continue:

"I decided I want to live in this house"
"I decided I like sleeping in the master bedroom"
"I do not want to argue with you"
"I want us both to be happy"
"I see many solutions to our issues"
"If divorce is the only way for you to be happy, I will not stand in your way"
"My relationship with you is important"
"You are free to leave."



Theses are some good examples, Any thing you want to add?