So I have to go see D19 2 hours away to help her fix her bike (her only transportation at school). H knows about it (I told him, and asked if he wanted to help her on this or should I handle it) and his solution was to send money and have her just pick out a new one. I gave her both options, and she wants help. So, do I inform H and ask if he wants to go so he can see the kids? Or just leave it alone and go without saying anything To my knowledge he hasn't contacted her since I told them about our separation.