He's mad/I'm withdrawing--38 year marriage ruined

[Ready2Change]

Hi Banjohe,

I am hesitant to give you advise until I understand what you meant by this statement:

I am not sure that there is much reason to go on, since I have pretty much ruined my life.

Please clarify exactly what you mean by this.

Come back here and post, i.e., vent, ask questions, etc....but thinking about possible suicide is not the answer for anyone. There is always a solution to every problem...we just have to be patient and find the solution.

Your words mean one thing to you and can be interpreted by others(us, H ect.) completely different.

Please clarify so we are not offering the wrong advise.