I agree very hard for them to get better so they choose the easiest route and in their mind of denials, it makes sense a new OW, a new drug, new clothes will fix it
a few might come out the other side, but with the issues and problems of a 5-10 year drunken hiatus
and I believe many Mlcers would need extensive therapy after MLC to really resolve all the damage
many will never recover the loss of their kids-it could never really be the same for same
I am grateful my children did not have the continued negative influence of XH and OW
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow