Appeasement. Setting her free the way she wants to be set free.
So why do you have to SET her free? In my opinion, by going dark and not pursuing her, it is opening the birdcage Do you need to reach in and throw the bird in the air to "set it free"?
Originally Posted by burned
Originally Posted by Amoafwl
You aren't standing in her way by doing nothing.
OK, I thought about this and it makes sense. If she wants this to happen and she wants it to happen her way, she needs to be explicit and say something like, "Hey, we need to meet and put an agreement together and file. I'm available at such and such dates." Something like that. That's if she wants to keep living in fantasy land where somehow this is "mutual."
I mean.....maybe. Either way, if she wants something to happen, she can put in the effort and make it happen. If she doesnt, she wont.
Eventually though, YOU may decide that you arent interested in continuing to be legally tied to her and cut that rope...But for now, what difference does it make? Let her act as she wants. It isnt your job to do this for her.
