So many attempts to "manipulate" you. Here are some that I notice:

1. "Hey, aren't you proud of me? Say it!"
2. "Feel sorry for me because my H is trying to get rid of me!" (you're the H!)
3. Make you feel guilty, storm off in a huff.

Which of those usually worked in your MR? And which of those did you resist, thereby confusing her and causing her to up her game?

H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")