Hi T. Here is when DB and some of IC advices diverge....Your W has a lot of work to do by herself. But she must want to do that first. Imho there´s no need for any of that.
Keep moving forward and protecting D14. Keep DB.
thanks again for chiming in nef.
i know what to do on my part, keep DBing,move forward, and i think these have been a second instinct for me. but what puts me on hold sometimes, is when IC mentions that am hurting D14’s life by her not having an R with WW. suggesting things like having a short convo with WW on how she can gain D14’s trust or if i can’t, we can do what was mentioned above, we can both talk to a CC.
whatever i do, I always think about the consequences of what my actions would do to D14. really hoping am not hurting her. no matter what would be the outcome of my sitch, would be a great achievement if D14 comes out of this as a better, stronger person.
