So I reached out to my W the day I was served and it took her 2 days to respond that she wants to check with her Lawyer. Today she finally responds with a text stating that all negotiations will be going through her lawyer since she is not familiar with the law. I responded with a text simply stating that I am not asking her to cut her lawyer out of the loop but that I would simply like the opportunity of discussing a potential settlement with her face to face without getting lawyers involved. No answer...
Maybe this is a ply out of the WAW (WW) playbook, but it is clear that she is avoiding having to have this discussion with me. What is that about? She is the one asking for a D...
I have this suspicion that she (or her lawyer) is trying to work me over even though when she moved out said she did not want anything from me.
She was more or less pleasant last time we saw each other. We even had a tender moment where I held her as she cried on my shoulder, but I feel that she is now avoiding me completely.
I have not shown her anything but a clam demeanor so far. Inside I am all over the place from sad to frustrated to angry. Who is this person that I am dealing with? Is she going to be a Jekyll/Mrs. Hyde moving forward? How can you just move out and shut another person out of your life like that? But then out of the blue text and ask if I would like to have the dog for a few days and pretend like nothing is happening when she drops it off?
