Just got finished up with my first telephone coaching call. It was very helpful to get the experts point of view which pretty much confirmed most of what has already been discussed in this thread. One thing that was very helpful was clarification on how i should be around her at the house. Basically it was suggested that I treat her like she is a house guest staying for a visit. More or less what I have been doing the last week and a half as it is. So plan for now is basically keep plugging away with working on myself, GAL, and detaching.
