A new mindset for Burned. This is thread 7.

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My WW blindsided me when she filed...and yes it hurt like hell. She didnt even have the decency to tell me she filed. On the day she did it, we had friendly casual texts about our S and a few other things. The next week i get a paper in the mail from a random lawyer trying to drum up business askimg about my case. She had the papers hidden in the house for nearly a week and didnt hint about it one bit.

As for my W, shes very thorough. She dots every i and crosses every t. Im not sure how your W is, but mine does her homework. That was one of my biggest attractions to her. Dont try to guess where your WW is at in the process, because they wont give you any real clue as to what is going on in their head.

My WW told me for almost a year and a jalf she didnt want a D, and that she wanted to stay married. Once i found out real info on her A, all that changed quickly. She strung me along as plan b, and once she couldnt keep her lie up she shut down.