R2C, I picked up on coaches posts right away and reading through his posts had an immediate and profound impact on my direction and the happiness and drive that I currently have. I really am not worried about the outcome of my marriage. For obvious reasons the preferred outcome would be to reconcile but at this moment I know that I will be OK no matter what happens in the end. There is one relationship in my life that the outcome is critically important and that is my relationship with myself. Looking at myself even as recently as two weeks ago I was not the person I want to be. Today not much has changed with that except for the fact the I recognize the issues and am taking steps to improve those items and that simple fact has inspired a new found love for myself.
