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Thanks Cadet. I read some threads on here that outlines the pursuer and distanced differences.
I was definitely the pursuer. Then I stopped about a year ago. Then he was pursuing me but I was not reciprocating in any way. Most likely because I felt such a huge resentment because it felt as though his job was more important than our M and I.

I’m not crying myself to sleep anymore but I do get bouts of extreme sadness.

I’m trying not to think about what he’s doing by keeping busy. I tend to over analyze and assume specific things if I don’t have all the answers.