So, the other day, W wanted to see S, but she wanted me to take him to her store (it's about 4 blocks from my house). So I did. She paid for his dinner, I paid for mine. After a few minutes I cracked a joke with one of her employees. W decided to jump on me for "joking about her store" and I said "It was a joke, and you know that." She said "well, maybe if I talk to you serious like this you'll start listening" to which I responded "Okay, S, time to go home. Tell mommy goodbye." and then we left. I sent her a text message about an hour later that said "It's not okay to manufacture reasons to argue with me, especially in front of S...and when we work for the same company. You're welcome to see S whenever you like, but I will not be bringing him to your store since you insist on arguing with me in front of him."
I got a text at 5:09 this morning from her: "Good morning! Just a friendly reminder to put a jacket on S, although I know you're better at checking the weather than I am lol. Have a good day today. Give S a kiss for me."
That was weird.
Today she called: "I have a favor to ask you, it's kind of important. I'm 20 seconds away from your place, can I stop by?"
I had some important stuff (taxes, S school and medication stuff) to talk to her about, so I said that would be ok. I met her downstairs and she asked if she could come up. It's cold and rainy, so I said that would be fine plus S wanted to see her.
She came up and sat in the chair. I asked what she wanted to ask. She said she wanted to take a nap. I was going to say no, but I was distracted by S kicking me in the shin. She fell asleep in the chair. This was right before S's bedtime. I woke her up and told her that we were doing the bedtime routine, and she could lay in the bedroom while I get S ready for bed (honestly, I wouldn't have, but I needed S to pay attention to his routine and she literally just drove to the LAST place she'd probably want to take a nap at and fell asleep in under 3 seconds sitting up). S and I went about the routine as per our usual. At his bedtime, I woke her up and told her he was going to bed and I needed to talk to her after he was in bed. She went in the restroom, then left before I got out of the room. Then she texted and wanted me to call so I could tell her the important stuff.
So I did, and she kept getting off topic about work, funny things, how we've been reacting out of emotion and not dealing with each other's emotions when we fight, and how as a human we both had feelings but failed to consider the reactions the other would have, etc...I was like "that would have been good to do two years ago." She said "I know. We'd still be together, but we've both done and said things we can't take back." I said "yeah." Then she went on about work and funny stuff again until the very end of the call when she started acting like she was going to steer the conversation into an argument...and she fell asleep on the phone.
I don't even know wtf she's doing, but she DEFINITELY needs more sleep.
