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T, dont count on WW stopping her A or not seeing OM because of your D14. Right now WW's selfish needs trump everything else. Even if she were to stop now, it would only kick the can down the road a bit and youll end up in the same sitch again later.
Keep doing for you and your d14 right now.
thanks for the sound advice e.
i have accepted that reality wherein she’s going to stop and never come back. what’s hard to accept is, even D14 feels that way. she thinks it will be impossible for WW to choose in leaving OM over her. D14 thinks bee neagtively about WW and it’s hard to change her mind otherwise.
another thing took the dog to the vet, because her gums were bleeding. come to find out she needs her molar extracted. didn’t have to say anything to WW but i did. after all, she’s still part of this family. told WW thru text how much it’s going to cost, she suggested she knows a vet that can do it for less. and i know the vet, it’s POS’s uncle. my dilemma is how do i turn it down without being aggressive or arrogant.
was thinking along the lines of- “WW, i’m sorry if you find this reply in an arrogant or angry tone. i know who the vet you’re talking about and i don’t want him, main reason is i don’t want anything to do with POS. not my daughter, not my pets. don’t worry how much it’ll cost for the dogs procedure, i will find a way. the last time this happened we were able to do without that vet, so i don’t see the difference now.”
or just simply “ no. thanks for the offer, i’ll find a way to pay for it.”
