Did, I would focus on you, what the IC says you should do, and just self improvement.

Also, stop making excuses:

"When I have d4 half the time and work 2-3 nights per week it doesnt leave much time for GAL."

Excuse.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018