Your party sounds like a great time!! Good for you!!! Keep GAL...you can only benefit. I, too, have had some out-of-character touch and goes with my H lately. I think it would be completely ludicrous to think that our H's don't have any feelings remaining for us. I have been my H's best friend for years...that is not a relationship, regardless of what problems there are, that you walk away from without looking back...at least once and maybe multiple times. I think that is why the GAL is so important. So we can come out of this at the end with SOMETHING... even if that something is not our marriage. I overreacted to something my H did yesterday which tells me I have a long way to go still... even though I'm doing good. He apologized and said he did not mean to hurt me.. said "I was reaching out". Alas...I think he was reaching out because of guilt...not because he actually misses me. My H also referred to his moving out as "temporary" to his daughter. Don't know if he is thinking that it actually is temporary or if he was just trying to soften the blow and inch his way closer to a D. Given my H's practice of avoidance... I would not be surprised if it is the latter. Anyway... I think you shouldn't read too much into his latest actions...for your sake. Just stay the course and keep working on you. (((HUGS)))
