Well, here I am again. H was at a training (the one where he had hoped to fly his "friend" out--she didn't come. He was lovely during all of that time, and asked if I would have lunch with him yesterday. I said yes, and it was clear from the get go that he was irritated. Mad during the entire lunch--later I asked "we were fine for five days--you told me that I had nothing to worry about and that we both want to save the marriage--relax." To that he replied: I guess that just the sight of you makes me mad. Ouch. Lots of insults after that--I almost threw in the towel right then and there.
