W talked when she came home. She's been seeing her IC for 2 weeks now. We had a long talk about her issues and confusion. W's IC told her she doesn't need to be with anyone right now. I laughed b/c my sister said something similar a while back.
W thinks she wants to go to MC. Thinks she still misses me a lot and that she no longer hates me like she did 6 months ago. Said she always loved me.
She said something like we start as friends. I was like "I won't be your friend". I also told her I won't get involved again without MC. She meant like going slow I guess. So I'm going to do my best to keep up my GAL, not let my wall down, and just stay the course here.
Big problem is that she doesn't think it was wrong to go get a OM. So I'm pretty pissed about this. Not sure what to do. Obviously I'm going to bring it up in MC. I think she, her friends and parents have convinced themselves that it was OK b/c they don't want to believe she could mess up like this. I'm just wondering how that works. "I didn't cheat on my husband, I cheated on my boyfriend - with my husband"....*barf*
I'd appreciate all advice and am just planning to go real slow and take my time to think about what I really want here.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
