Thank you for stopping by FS and for you words of encouragement. I’m a bit peeved at my H and resisting the urge to text him that he is a complete A-hole. Anyway... I was minding my own business quite proud of myself for getting a lot done in a short period of time when I get this text. He and the kids took the boat out to drop off a crab trap and “they” thought it would be nice if I went back out with them to pick it up. So... I thought about it... I thought about saying I was busy [should have gone with that] but truth is that it is such a beautiful day and I love being out on the water so I agreed. I meet them at the dock downtown and it was a nice boat ride. I sat with my daughter in the back so H and I didn’t really talk a whole lot. He just said “nice to see you” when I got there. Anyway... we get back to where we keep our boat so H needed to drive me to my car. My daughter then asks if they are still going to the corn maze as they hadn’t gone yet. “Yep,” he says. “Just have to drop mama off at her car.” LIke it was great to have her on the boat ride but now she needs to go home. F*%$ you!!!!!!
So he dropped me off with his stupid a** singsong “bye”. I just got out of the car, told the kids to have fun with their dad and left. I feel humiliated. Like he can just take me off the shelf and put me back on there whenever he wants. It would have been better if he hadn’t invited me at all. I was actually having a nice day until that. The worst part is that he probably has no idea what a rude, inconsiderate jerk he is. No idea. Just more food for thought on my end, I suppose. Is this really the kind of self-absorbed person I want to be with? Nope... not this person.
Am I overreacting here or was that as big of an a-hole move as I think it was? Okay... now I just got myself mad and sent him a text telling him he is an inconsiderate a-hole. Sometimes you can only take so much, you know?
