As I’m thinking about it, one of the hardest things I’ve had to cope with is this feeling: OK, so you wanted out, there were problems in the MR. Why did you have to do it THAT way?
It tells you that their problem-solving strategies aren’t up to snuff. Or, they lost control and now they’re trying to justify it. Or, they really are narcissistic and stopped caring about your feelings the minute you stopped serving their need for admiration.
Me as well. I understand WW was unahappy for quite some time, but i cant respect the way she went about this. Id be crushed either way, but she could have gave me an ultimatum or just said she was unhappy and moved on, and that will haunt me for a long time. The destruction she caused in her path to A and then D didnt need to happen at all. She displayed selfishness to its highest level with no regard for me or our S.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
