No she hasnt been diagnosed but, she is a self admitted narciccist. She exhibits pretry much all the traits as well. I think my W has apologized to me (im sorry BUT) maybe 2-3 times in 20 years. All the other times were squarely my fault in her mind.
I dont see her ever seeking reconciliation. She just doesnt have the personality that could say "im sorry, i messed up, and i have a lot of work to do to fix myself". Her image is very important to her, and she accused me of trying to ruin it early on in her A. I guess she couldnt figure out that deserting her family, having an affair, and treating me like trash throughout the process had something to do with it???
I can actually remember my WW saying that she had done so much for her family that now its time for her, so that definitely rings true. That seems to be a staple of a WW and MLC'ers(she is definitely in mlc), they are 100% in selfish mode and anything in the way willbget run over.
You could definitely have something with the following aling thing. My WW and i are opposites and she isbdefinitely a go getter and quick decision maker. Im the opposite, and alwaysnfelt that we fit together, but i became the follower and her the leader, so that makes sense.
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Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
