As I’m thinking about it, one of the hardest things I’ve had to cope with is this feeling: OK, so you wanted out, there were problems in the MR. Why did you have to do it THAT way?

It tells you that their problem-solving strategies aren’t up to snuff. Or, they lost control and now they’re trying to justify it. Or, they really are narcissistic and stopped caring about your feelings the minute you stopped serving their need for admiration.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")