I concur, we definitely went into MR ignorant of what was needed from both sides to succeed. I take the blame for my part in the divide that started in my MR, but not the A that WW had or the end of the M since i never wanted a D.
I know this is to be expected, but WW has not once taken any of the blame for whats happened nor has she looked at herself snd said i can change xyz and be a better W.
My WW is selfish and a self admitted narcassist. Her A and the D definitely smell of selfishness.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof