That is the best thing I’ve read all day. Four years!!! Yikes!! Way to go. Sounds really promising and you handled that exceedingly well. I’m taking notes too. Goes to show you that we really do not know what is going on in our spouse’s minds and that when we think nothing is going on because we don’t hear from them, that may actually be the time when a shift is taking place. So happy for you IH!!
Oh... and as a woman... I completely agree with Steve. Don’t leave all the decisions up to her. Have a fantastic time!!!
