Well it is done. I have to admit that I am relieved as I had been fighting for the M the whole time. My advice to all newcomers is when they walk away...Completely go no contact and don't look back.
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18