It's really helpful to hear a different perspective from your thread and contributions here. One thing I wonder is if you feel you're being fair to yourself, OW, and your wife by returning to your wife if you feel that OW is your true love and soulmate? I'm just wondering because clearly you thought returning to your wife is the right thing to do, and I agree that it is, but it must be painful for all of you to be in the positions you're in knowing that you and OW still have feelings for one another. Do you still see OW at work or anywhere in real life? Does your wife seem to feel happy and content to have you back? I'm just curious....thanks again for sharing!
Hi N! You are right about those feelings. I had them. That’s why I’m so grateful to this forum. I came across Sandi’s list of waywardness. Those were my feelings...they are different now. It takes time...time is a key factor on our sitches. I dont’t see OW at work. Part of the staff of my coworkers were trasferred to another facility two years ago. She was one of them.
