Husband left for second time - 7

[Jim1234]

So maybe this guy lost interest. Maybe he saw some of the same incompatibilities you did, and decided to pass. It happens, and you move on. I'm sure there will be others who are interested. You say only one other guy and your H made it crystal clear they were interested. I suspect there were a lot of more subtle signals from a lot of guys that you missed. Maybe they were waiting for an overt sign that you were interested before they gave you one. Been there, Done that.

As far as H being on the phone around your D, I strongly suggest you mention it to him. He may blow you off, but he might not be aware of how much it happens.

I think it's wonderful you're finally going to a divorce care group. You need to do more fun GAL activities, and this might open some doors for you. At our age, it's harder to make friends, and you have to work at it a little by going to things like these.

And don't worry. No one's judging your writing skills.