Generally, when people ask urgent questions on here, it is a sign that they are not remotely detached and are spinning. [/quote]
You're correct, I was at work so I couldn't spend to much and type out the reason I asked this question. My WAW sent this while I was at work.
I almost felt like it was a good sign that she spoke about our R even if it wasn't pleasant news since she hadn't spoken about our R in such a long time. However, as I thought more about what she said to me I figure maybe it wasn't a good thing.
Here is what she said, could you guys please give me your opinions on her text and my response.
"Ok so like in all seriousness I'm leaving once S is done with school year. I don't have anything out here that will make me want to stay i need my family. And if it were up to me I'd leave the same day ex-husband (military is moving) is leaving just because he is my help with S at the moment like weekend wise. I can't stay here any longer than that. And that's for sure so all I am saying is once the the time comes we need to figure out what we are going to do with the situation and stuff. This is not the place for me I don't like it here. I just want to be with my family" WAW
Here was my response
"Being away form your family has to be so difficult. This town [censored]. You ended your 1st marriage here then you met some immature kid like me. You're so strong and you've put with so much. You deserve to be around your love ones."
Can you guys please tell me if my response validated her feelings. I started to read " Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" today. So I am trying to improve.
