Last night I resolved not to text my H on Saturday expecting that there would be NC. Then this morning, I got a text from him that was completely out of the blue. He texted me what he was doing that morning (huh?) and then asked me to let him know if the kids and I were going to be home that afternoon (double huh?). He closed with “enjoy the sun today . I was jumping into the shower when the text arrived so I let it sit for awhile. While I was in the shower, he sent another text telling me that he was going to call his daughter today (something I always asked him to do). So...awhile later, I answered him that my son was going to be home with a friend and that I had a lot to do today so did not know what I or our daughter would be doing. I also let him know that his mom would be away on Tuesday and Wednesday so I would need help with the kids as I was supposed to be going out on Tuesday night. He responded right away that he has a job interview before he comes over but that “we will need to brainstorm” and “a solution will present itself”... followed by another smiley face. I just sent back a thumbs up. So... strange. Over that past few years, H has never freely texted me with his itinerary. If I asked where he was going, it was “errands” but he never volunteered information. I now know that any information, for him, was always going to be a lie to cover up a previous lie and so on, and so on. So I get why he was always so short on info.
Anyway... that is the latest instalment. I’m just going to keep on keeping on.
. I was jumping into the shower when the text arrived so I let it sit for awhile. While I was in the shower, he sent another text telling me that he was going to call his daughter today (something I always asked him to do). So...awhile later, I answered him that my son was going to be home with a friend and that I had a lot to do today so did not know what I or our daughter would be doing. I also let him know that his mom would be away on Tuesday and Wednesday so I would need help with the kids as I was supposed to be going out on Tuesday night. He responded right away that he has a job interview before he comes over but that “we will need to brainstorm” and “a solution will present itself”... followed by another smiley face. I just sent back a thumbs up. So... strange. Over that past few years, H has never freely texted me with his itinerary. If I asked where he was going, it was “errands” but he never volunteered information. I now know that any information, for him, was always going to be a lie to cover up a previous lie and so on, and so on. So I get why he was always so short on info. 
