Good to hear your update. As many of have already commented, your update, like all of your posts, comes across as centered and in-control. You really have reached a good place. Things might not be perfect at work, your W might still be playing games, but there will always be those imperfections or noise to deal with and you are now coming at them from a position of strength.
I agree with you that the most important thing is protecting your kids and making sure that you don't falsely raise their hopes. Your plan of waiting to see if there is another invite seems fair, and if not getting to work on starting the D process seems like it is in order.
I hope your body starts cooperating so that you can get yourself back into the shape you want to be. Are you able to climb yet?
Thanks for sticking around here and helping out us newbies. Your perspective and hard-earned wisdom is invaluable.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
