Hi Neff,

I get that approach and will maintain that demeanor, but I do feel I need to be a bit more stern in my delivery.

I plan to keep it to the facts, but thus far anything I tell her she deflects or shifts her roll.

I need to focus on delivering message where I avoid putting fault on her and just keep it in how it impacts S.

Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

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