Have had more FTF interactions with WAW in the last week than in the last 6 months with parent teacher conferences, a meet up to hand off S, and now meeting up this upcoming Monday to discuss/hash out concerns on co parenting.
W pulled stunts 3 times this week where she made last minute changes to S schedule during my time without giving me any notice until last minute. Yesterday was bad when she used S as a pawn over phone and made me appear like I was the bad guy when I didn’t cater to her demands....so she puts S on phone and he starts crying.
I can’t explain why WAW is doing this other than trying to measure these stunts as some type of control or it’s straight head games. Either way, I told her this garbage needs to stop as it has a huge impact on S emotional state.
I want to engage WAW from a calm and positive demeanor, but her utter lack of respect she continues to show me leads me to believe it won’t be impactful and she will continue to avoid having any culpability for her behavior. MLC/WAW bull$it...
Any suggestions in how I best handle conversation?
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
