Originally Posted by lgdiaz
Urgent Question:

Has anyone ever personally, or known someone either on here or in their personal life know a LBS that
took detachment to another level and just made peace with their WAS decision?

For example, If the WAS wants to leave and LBS just accepts their decision and tells them they agree with their decision and move on with their life?

Is it when you feel like doing this that patience comes to play or is it better to truly accepting their decision and moving on?

Thank you



Why is this an urgent question?

Generally, when people ask urgent questions on here, it is a sign that they are not remotely detached and are spinning.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16