Thanks everybody for the input and support.
I have dropped the rope.
I am not trying to control her or second guess what she does. She will do what she will do.
I will continue to DB and take care of my kids and myself.
D is in counseling already I will get S in there soon.
I will update as I can.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18