Thanks everybody for the input and support. I have dropped the rope. I am not trying to control her or second guess what she does. She will do what she will do. I will continue to DB and take care of my kids and myself. D is in counseling already I will get S in there soon. I will update as I can.
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18