Makes sense. Ive always felt its good to know both sides of the story. Are you sure yoir ic asking questions is a good idea, its sort of a surrogate asking for you?
Not sure. Guess maybe it depends on what she asks? Hopefully she’s aware enough to either word the questions correctly so they aren’t seemingly intrusive or she just asks generalities to sort of “bring her up to speed” or to get a better understanding of where Ws head is at. I guess I’m at the mercy of whatever takes place. All I can control is what I say and respond with, which will be validating all day long throughout the session.
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19