Not sure "doormat" is the right word there, but you're right, you cannot mend the problems between the two of them. W is blaming you and she's blaming D, but she seems to think she has no part in it which obviously isn't the case. And unfortunately that is typical WAS behavior, everyone else is to blame. I mean holy hell, "I tried to text her and she doesn't reply, and when she does it's hurtful and disrespectful." Well which is it, she doesn't reply, or she replies but it's mean? It can't be both. And for crying out loud, TEXTING???????? THIS IS HOW SHE TRIES TO COMMUNICATE WITH HER HURTING D?????? It's aggravating. Kudos to you for trying but I would pull back at this point and hope that the IC can have an impact.
^^^ i would really love to address this. you’re right AS, D14 deserves more than text messages. actually they’ve been sitting down in front of D14’s IC. the last time, D14 got pissed after their convo, she came it to my truck and vented out. “oh my god! she’s playing the victim card! asking me if i can forgive her, and yet she’s still with that POS!” and i think D14 also knows that she is worth more than text messages.
