Spent quite a bit of time yesterday listening to WW's mother justify her actions. Just sad, no fault directed at WW whatsoever. I have no clue why we even had the talk. Just more justification for WW's affair?
I'm with LH, why in the world would you even allow the opportunity for an R talk with MIL to start with. In the field of battle you can hunker down in a foxhole or you can stand up and walk around unarmed waiting for people to take pot shots at you. One survives, the other gets riddled with holes. Don't make yourself a target!
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Outside of that, i think ww is planning on getting married to OM asap. So even though i know we're beyond done, that stings and rightfully so. All this was done while we were married.
Very sorry, that's got to burn. But after every burn you'll bounce back faster until the burns don't affect you anymore.
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Anyone know how how household items purchased before M are split up?
If they were items that were clearly yours or hers before M then they stay that way. Big items like that were written into our D decree as being pre-marital items that were not to be split. I think stuff you bought together pre-M is still considered marital property unless they were gifts to one of you.
