It is my blind faith in BD that is currently stopping me from doing or saying anything to try to stop the D. I do love her and her happiness does mean a lot to me, is letting go the only thing I can offer her?
What would you say to "stop the divorce"? Do you think there is something that would turn it around for her, if she only heard those words? I'm genuinely curious, b/c you are the expert on your relationship.
You should do what works. So if what you're doing doesn't work, stop doing that. MWD has a section in the book on this, where you wait and see what happens. Not everything happens right away either.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
